Before Julie reports for active duty, she spends one final morning with her lover, Anne. Julie decided to join the Army Reserves but she never thought she would actually be called to war. Anne feels betrayed by Julie’s decision not tell her about her deployment. Julie is effectively ending their relationship and throwing herself back in the closet due to the Don’t Ask Don’t Tell military policy. Julie and Anne try to cope with the situation while remembering the past and continuing their morning rituals. 'Don’t Ask…I Won’t Tell' is a film about a young couple’s emotional and physical goodbye.